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Now it's "Mama, play with me, Mama, fix this, Mama, make me cereal, Mama, do it like this, Mama, want to watch ballet video, Mama, play with me, Mama, want to go outside, Mama, want want want DO DO DO!"
Can I has vacation now, please?
M: Oh, and what is your piggy's name?
M: And what does your piggy say?
A: *snort snort*
M: And what color is your piggy?
M: And what does your piggy eat?
A: Christmas trees
M: Oh? And what does your piggy drink?
A: Water fountain.
M: And where does your piggy sleep?
M: And where does your piggy take a bath?
M: And where does your piggy live?
A: Gramma's house.
I wasn't at all tired today, even though I didn't sleep in and I only had maybe three hours of sleep, but my brain was in a fog. I couldn't do anything right. I couldn't understand things I was reading. I typed up a letter to family about why I didn't want plastic toys for Aryquin for Christmas and then when I posted it, some helpful people pointed out to me that it was entirely psychotic. I took a break, had a shower, played with Aryquin and came back.
And they were right. It was the most effed up psychotic thing I have ever read. It was the worst crap I have ever written in my life. It hardly made sense and everything was just everywhere. I could hardly believe I'd even written it. To my sleep-deprived brain, it had looked WONDERFUL. It had looked like the best writing ever.
What a fucking moron. I hope I sleep tonight. What is up with me?
By Astrid Lindgren
Reprinted from Father Times, Spring 1995, Volume 3, Issue 4. Astrid Lindgren is author of Pippi Longstocking.
Above all, I believe that there should never be any violence. In 1978 I received a peace prize in West Germany for my books, and I gave an accepting speech that I called just that: "Never Violence." And in that speech I told a story from my own experience.
When I was about 20 years old, I met an old pastor's wife who told me that when she was young and had her first child, she didn't believe in striking children, although spanking kids with a switch pulled from a tree was standard punishment at the time. But one day when her son was four or five, he did something that she felt warranted a spanking - the first of his life. And she told him that he would have to go outside and find a switch for her to hit him with. The boy was gone a long time. And when he came back in, he was crying. He said to her, "Mama, I couldn't find a switch, but here's a rock that you can throw at me."
All of a sudden the mother understood how the situation felt from the child's point of view: that if my mother wants to hurt me, then it makes no difference what she does it with; she might as well do it with a stone. And the mother took the boy onto her lap and they both cried. Then she laid the rock on a shelf in the kitchen to remind herself forever: never violence. And that is something I think everyone should keep in mind. Because violence begins in the nursery— one can raise children into violence.
Spanking Lowers Children's IQ:
Journal of Aggression, Maltreatment, & Trauma
Why Spanking Doesn't Work:
Ask Dr. Sears
Ask Mr. Dad
The Parenting Doctor
In a Nutshell:
- Spanking teaches children that it is okay to hit others.
- Spanking teaches children to use force against those smaller than them.
- Spanking teaches children that it is appropriate to use violence to get your own way.
- Teaching a child to hit does not teach them the resources to solve problems in a non-violent way.
- Spanking, like all abuse, is cyclical. If you teach it to your children, they will teach it to theirs.
- Girls who are spanked are more likely to choose abusive relationships as an adult.
- Spanking your child makes them more likely to severely abuse their own children
- Teaches children that what they want, what they think, and how they feel is worthless and does not matter.
- Spanking and hitting is humiliating to a child.
- Spanking sets you up for disaster in the future. You will have no way to control your children when they are too old to be spanked and years of being hit will make them have no respect for you. Parents who hit their children cannot find ways to control older children and teenagers who have always been hit rather than being taught morals.
- Spanking breaks down all trust in the parent-child relationship so that the child will distance him/herself from the parents when they are older. It is almost impossible to effectively communicate with an older child who has pushed a parent out. A child who has not been hit does not fear the parent and so feels comfortable sharing how they feel and will listen better to the advice of the adult. They do not keep things secret for fear of being punished.
-Physical punishment creates violent tendencies in children and sometimes the psychological damage is irreversible.
"But my parents spanked me and I'm fine."
No, you are not fine. Your parents hit you when you were little and they taught you that it's okay to hit little children, too.
"But it works. Look, I hit him/her and she/he stops and does what I say."
Spanking does not work. Using fear and pain to control a child works in the short-term, but not in the long term. It does not teach a child how to behave based on morals or empathy. It teaches them to avoid a behavior only at times when they are most likely to get caught and receive physical punishment from the parent.
"Spanking makes a child think about what they did."
No. Spanking NEVER makes a child think about what they did. If you think that, you obviously don't remember being a child. Punishment in general does not make a child sorry for what they did. It makes them sorry they got caught. After punishment, a child NEVER sits and thinks "wow, what I did was really wrong. I love my mommy and next time I'll do the right thing because I want to make her happy." No. A child who has been hit or punished feels resentment toward the parent: "I HATE MOMMY! I hate you! I hate you!" They feel anger and they feel violent because violence has been used against them. Children who are hit fear their parents and feel anger toward them and seek out retribution. They do not feel respect.
"But some children NEED to be hit."
Seriously. Get help.
"I'm the parent. My child needs to do what I say and when I say it."
Teaching your child that they have no rights will, like with ANY human being, even an adult, cause them to push back. Children have the same feelings, desires, and emotions as an adult. Really, the only difference is that they are smaller and easy to push around. But think about it; do you have to be hit in order to do what you are supposed to do? Why do you do the right thing? In your family, do you always do what your husband tells you to? Your wife? Relationships are a two-way street. You give some, you take some. Would it be okay if your husband smacked you around? Should it be okay for a husband to hit his wife if she doesn't do what he wants her to do immediately? Why is it okay for an adult to hit a child, but not okay for an adult to hit another adult?
"How do I discipline my child without hitting him/her?"
Gentle discipline works and it works in both the short-term and the long-term. Just the same way that you make decisions for yourself because you are inherently good, guiding a child helps teach them to also make good decisions for themselves because they are also inherently good. No child is born "bad." They are made that way by those who care for them. It should not take an entire lifetime for a child to learn to behave. It is something that can be instilled in them from their earliest days.
To learn how to effectively discipline your child, see:
Mothering.com - get advice from other parents!
La Leche League - what is gentle discipline.
Gentle Christian Mothers
Gentle discipline works. Spanking does not. Please, let's work together to end the cycle of violence and abuse.
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I mean, REALLY shitty.
What's up with all of the "I'm not happy and I see that you are, so I'm going to make you unhappy by snarking at you online" crap? Don't people have anything better to do? Seriously? Why do they have to try to make others feel as miserable as they are. It makes me so sad that their lives are so messed up. What must their parents have done to them when they were little to make them turn out that way?
What I don't get is WHY IT'S EVEN AN ISSUE! I don't care if you think gay marriage is beautiful or completely abhorrent, Prop. 8 is illegal. It's unconstitutional. You can't tell someone that they have no right to a civil liberty because they are attracted to someone of the same sex. What's next, telling black people that they can't use the "whites only" water fountain? Telling Hispanic Americans that they are not allowed to breed?
Since when do people get the right to vote on an issue where a religious belief is made into a law - a law that takes away the basic human rights of a minority. WHY is it being voted on? This shouldn't even be being voted on. It's as simple as that.
WHY IS THIS EVEN A FREAKING ISSUE, PEOPLE?! Are we going back in time or something?
And to you Christians who are so unbelievably NON-Christian, maybe you need to go read the freaking Bible. Jesus died for your sins, morons. That means everyone is forgiven if they believe in Christ. That renders the rules of the Old Testament null and void. That was Jesus' purpose. And if that's not good enough for you, maybe you should highlight the part where God said that only he has the right to judge and our only business is to love our neighbor and treat him the way we would want to be treated. Didn't Jesus say "let he who is without sin cast the first stone?" Maybe we should take away your right to be married because you drink alcohol or eat pork on Friday.
Hell, I'm PAGAN and I'm more Christian than most "Christians."
It's a slow-going process and I'm constantly updating. Some of the articles I write link to my Associated Content articles, so I'm hoping that keeping this new journal will help make a little money to put some more food on the table before this little one is eating non-boobie food. It's a view-only community. I am not taking members at this time.
Enjoy, my loves!
I made this last night and it's pretty damn good. It's a little more moist than cake, sort of like a banana bread.
Cheddar and Apple Bread
1/2 cup butter
2/3 cup sugar
2 apples peeled and chopped
1/2 cup walnuts (optional)
1/2 cup cheddar cheese - grated (1/2 cup before grating or 1 cup if it's already grated)
2 cups flour
1teaspoon baking powder
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 tsp baking soda
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees
2. In a bowl, mix flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. Set aside
3. In mixing bowl, beat melted butter and sugar until light
4. Beat in eggs one at a time
5. Stir in apples, walnuts, and cheddar
6. Slowly add and stir in dry mix.
7. Pour into greased 9x5x3" loaf pan
8. Bake at 350 degrees for approximately 50 minutes (loaf will start to brown slightly on the top.
And if anyone wants to try it, I think maybe adding about 1/4 cup chopped onions would taste terrific as well!
Amber's Baked Potato Soup
3 large russet potatoes - peeled and chopped
1 1/2 cups grated cheddar
1/2 small tub sour cream
1 tbsp butter (optional)
1 can chicken broth
1/4 cup diced green onion or chives
1 tsp black pepper
1 tsp garlic salt or 1/2 tsp regular salt
chopped bacon bits (optional)
Place potatoes in large pot and pour in chicken broth. Add enough water to cover potatoes and boil until soft. Blend potatoes in until they form a creamy soup. Add all ingredients and stew for 10 minutes. Serve with freshly baked bread. Makes 6 large servings or 8 regular servings.